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      Monday, August 22, 2011


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06:16 PM - 08/22/2011

The topic: Saturday, Brian’s mom called

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She needed someone to take her to the drugstore and the bank.  Brian said no problem.  Then he asked me to do it. *lol*

So, I took her and asked if she liked my cooking (remember, I’m sending meals over to her). She told me she did, the meals are a big help to her.  I recalled back when I was single and didn’t have a working oven, I’d only eat one meal a day, at lunch.  When I worked it was easier to get something to eat.  And it can be really hard to keep cooking for one, it gets boring.

Anyway, I told her I wished I’d been able to do the same for my mom, but I know my mom would have said thank you, later tell me how great the meal was, when in actuality, she’d throw it out. I know that’s what she’d do.  I wish I could have saved her, but I know it wasn’t my choice.  I told Brian’s mom that if I could help keep her eating, I’d do it.  Don’t want another mother starving to death.

So, last night, mom came to me in a dream again. I think she came because of my conversation with Brian’s mom.  She has put on a fair amount of weight, bordering on chubby. I put my arms around her and hugged her really tight and she was so warm!  (The last years of her life, she was always cold.)  And I started to cry in my dream, sobbing my heart out and and told her how very much I miss her.

I guess I do.

I’m glad she dropped by.


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