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      Tuesday, January 08, 2008


tales from the parkside
05:21 PM - 01/08/2008

The topic: I found out this afternoon

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That major signs post to my mother being an alcoholic.

I drove over to pay the woman who stayed those two nights with her, then drove up to mom’s to check the mail.  The manager followed me up and we had a long talk, probably over an hour.  I found out some interesting things about my mother, but this knowledge went quite a way in explaining why she’s been acting the way she’s been acting.

I did call the care center and let them know what I’d found out. 

As for me, this changes a lot.  Now, I’m not feeling so sorry for her being in that place.  I don’t feel guilty at all right now.  I did, you know, thinking my poor mom in that place alone without her cats.  That’s gone.  Kaput. She’s where she needs to be.

I don’t think she’s admitted to anyone yet, that she drank as much as she did.  But right now, I feel more strongly that she’ll be able to go home.  And that we’ll do whatever we can to keep her dry. 

In the time between now and then, I think we’ll be able to come up with some pretty compelling reasons for her not to drink.



Amazing what comes out “after the fact”.  With my alcoholic mom, “after the fact” her hairdresser told me that every time she came in at 8:30 in the morning for her appointment, she could smell liquor on her breath.  She abused vodka.  I pray you stay strong through this Dianne.

Posted by Peggy @ Thursday, January 10, 2008 - 8:07:16 AM

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